Zee hits Yolanda with assumed hate, checkout her truthful response

This was one candid and unplanned moment of Yolanda Monyai when star Zee of BBMzansi confronted Yolanda with a question that shocked the fans. Zee did not hesitate to ask, “Why did you think I disliked you in the house and never liked you?”

Yolanda appeared to be taken aback and mentioned that she did not see such a direct question coming. She said at the beginning of the podcast that her friends told her they thought she had been rude to her in the house, which instigated the conversation.

Zee asked if it was her facial expressions, and Yolanda responded with “No.” She explained that Zee’s energy in the house was very distant, and it made Yolanda believe she didn’t want anything to do with her. She even mentioned how Zee’s mom had come to the house once, and how this had sealed the deal for her misunderstanding of Zee’s personality.

The more she spoke, the more she said Zee was reminding her of women she had stayed with at one point or another in her life. It brought up old wounds of rejection, not having liked these women. Curious, Zee asked what those mothers had done to her, to which Yolanda replied that it didn’t have so much to do with anything they’d ever done, but rather a smorgasbord of energies she’d encountered.

For this, Zee opened up her personality trait, which was that she liked quiet and serene surroundings. She found Yolanda too loud and really couldn’t relate to, and it made her act a little uncomfortably, which was not from personal dislike but rather their personality traits. “It was never personal hate,” explained Zee, “and over time we worked things out.”.

Yolanda further revealed that her impression of Zee changed at BravoB’s party when she got to understand the personality of Zee. She referred to the scenario where Zee fought Lerato just so she could share food with Yolanda, while she thought Zee seemed afar from her. The calm manner and un-wavered focus that Zee had, especially about her mom’s visit helped Yolanda find her not to be the one which she thought of her.

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The two ladies wrapped up the podcast on a sweet note, with Yolanda making sure to mention that she now understands Zee a lot better and realizes that she never truly disliked her. Of course, the misunderstanding being finally resolved between the two of them, and their bond deepened, as usual, excited fans.